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Burn Out is Real

Burn Out Sneaks up on You

People who work in offices get burned out by waking up at 6 am to commute for two hours, spend eight to nine hours at the office and then spend two more hours commuting home.   People who work from home get burned out, too.  If you are a diligent employee or passionate about what you do, you may find your workday blurs into your home life and you could forget to clock out.   It is crucial for your mental health that you draw lines between your professional and personal time, especially if you are working from home as a working parent. 

Avoid "Ideal Worker" Burn Out

Are you an Ideal Worker?

Is this your idea of an ideal worker?  We are taught that working hard can help us achieve our dreams and aspirations.  But the term working hard also conjures up an image depicted by four descriptive words - overwhelmed, overcommitted, frustrated and overworked.  Those words translate into putting long hours into work. You have to start early, before everyone else, and you have to stay up late when everyone else is already enjoying their afternoons and evenings.   

How about this scenario? You are working remotely for the first time.  You may be struggling to preserve healthy boundaries between your work life and personal life.   You may think that you have to work more to show your loyalty, devotion, and productivity.  Maybe your employer is expecting too much. If you slide into your desk chair on a Sunday afternoon and you wind up checking work emails and answering clients, remember that you’re also putting yourself in a place where people may reasonable assume you are happy to respond to a message outside your traditional office hours.    

Occasionally, it feels good to check that nagging task or big project off the list, but please do not let working long hours become a bad habit.   It could lead to burnout.  Burnout rarely happens all at once.  Rather, it sneaks up on you, eventually coming to a head after days, weeks, or months of overwork.

While working one additional hour to move a given project forward is likely not debilitating when viewed in a vacuum, it can trigger a revised baseline where you must continue to overwork in order to maintain some new status quo.  You do not need to be available all day, every day.  You do not need to be always available, respond to every email or notification the moment you get an alert.   Feeling otherwise may lead you to be available almost all the time and that causes problems in work-life balance.  You do not need to prove you are working.  If you think about what others may be wondering it will be difficult to actually concentrate on difficult tasks.  The proof of your work lies in your outputs and meeting your goals.

Be Proactive about Burnout

So how do we compartmentalize work from home life?  First, acknowledge that burnout happens and take proactive steps.  Do so for yourself and your peers.   People who suffer from burnout are usually unable to spend the mental energy to recognize what is happening to them.  People might be trapped by their own fatigue, too worn out to find the creative solutions needed to take a break.  Based on Harvard research and other academic literature, here are some recommendations:

Be Proactive about Burnout for Yourself:

  • Determine a start and end time for work and forget about the demands of work in those off hours.

  • Take regular relaxation and activity breaks – several times during the day, every day.

  • Use “rituals” or “boundary-crossing activities” to start and end your workday.  Rituals are symbolic actions performed at key moments that help you to maintain habits, switch context and keep work at work.  Even if you’re working a flexible schedule because you’re looking after kids, you need little reminders to help you move between the different “states” of your day and actually focus on what’s in front of you.  

  • While a physical workspace helps you separate work from the rest of your home life, you still need to pair physical boundaries with mental ones.  Remote work experts call these “boundary-crossing activities.” Putting on your work clothes or planning your daily to-do list can indicate that you are changing from “home you” to “work you.” Replacing the commute with a ritual physical activity, like a walk to a nearby park or around your home can be invigorating as well as a boundary-crossing activity that tells you it’s time to head into your office space.   To end your day with a ritual you can clean your desktop,  put your laptop in the closet, shut off your phone while you cook, or read a chapter of a book, or go for another walk which would also relieve tension in your body and give you a breath of fresh air.

  • Use collaborative software to make sure others know when you will be working. If others become intrusive of your “me time” you may have to remind them of what your hours are. 

Be Proactive about Burnout for your Peers:

  • Encourage them to communicate and take time off to focus on things that are relaxing and improve their overall health and welfare.  You may have to ask permission help them arrange things so they can take a break.  

  • Encourage colleagues to communicate with their managers when they recognize the signs of burnout.  

  • If you are in a leadership role you might want to offer to help your colleague or employees to structure  their pace of work.   That may need help in prioritizing important work from tasks that make them look productive.  

Keep each other accountable.  When you notice someone in a different time zone should be asleep, tell them

Multitasking is not Productive Work  

Multitaskers think they are effective than is actually the case.  ​Science shows that trying to multitask is inefficient and less productive.  ​Your ability to focus on one thing at a time proves to have a more direct advantage.

How Am I Smart?

You are smarter than you think, even when it doesn’t feel like it.   Intelligence reveals itself in so many ways that you are often not aware of the ways in which you display intelligence through your diversity of strengths.

The Value of Undivided Attention

In working smart, time is not the problem.  Distractions - even small ones - are the culprit.  Use undivided attention strategies to limit or eliminate them, so you can use energies more meaningfully and productively.

Protect your Focus and Time at Work

Working smart is the ability to having better judgment and control as much as you can.  Choice is the most powerful control you have in life. You can use choice wisely to protect your focus and time with one of these attention management strategies.

Boost Motivation the Easy Way

Do you know how to overcome those times when you lack enthusiasm for a task?  Did you know that motivation is more than desire or willpower? ​ Pinpoint the glitch in your level of enthusiasm and use specific actions to boost your motivation. 

Be Cognizant of your State of Mind

In your waking hours your energy is centered in one of four mental states.  In working smart the state of flow is the perfect mental zone.  But to get there you have to be cognizant of your state of mind.